Often the memory requirements necessary to run the server
conflict with the memory requirements to get any other work done.

Sometimes I am not connected to the net, as when I find it necessary to use my phone for its more normal usages. Connect to the server. Test

You can try email, I may notice, and if so I can launch the server if it is convenient or if I can make it so.

If you have IRC access, which I prefer, you can usually find me in the channel #ircle on undernet.
If you are new to IRC the people who hang out in that channel are very helpful and will patiently answer your questions.
My nickname in that channel is dfy.
If you have a Macintosh you can get the best IRC client from ircle.com
If you have a windows box you should get mIRC

get ICQ free