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Thursday, January 4th, 2001 - The West Coast Way
My new PO Box is:

Heather Shaw
P.O. Box 13222
Berkeley, CA 94712-4222

I skipped and sang all the way home from work today. It was my last day, see. I went in and told Ms. X first thing that I hated the job, and that she should look for someone else ASAP. I was honest, and told her that while I would work Friday, I didn't want to. She opted to let me go at the end of the day.

I've never been so glad to quit a job. I can hardly believe I only worked there 3 days - it felt like months of torture. I realized that one of the things I really like about temping is that seldom is it so stressful that you end up taking it home with you. Not this job, of course: Ms. X wasn't even concerned when I told her I was waking up in the middle of the night, grinding my teeth over the job. She does it every night, you see, and I think she considered it a good sign. Denise (my temp agent) told me that that's the way it is in NYC: you work like a dog for no pay and you consider yourself lucky while you worry constantlly about your job. Ugh! I am so pleased to be living on the laid-back West Coast.


Grrr. I have been disconnected three times in the past 6 minutes, and I'm getting mighty sick of waiting to reconnect each time. Todd tells me this is a phone line issue, rather than an ISP issue, so I am forced to blame Goliath instead of David. It's like trying to approach Zeus (switching religions here, stay with me), Zeus who is far too big, powerful and concerned with his own petty interests to care whether my service is good or not. I know, I should pop for DSL. I'm living in the dark ages (she exclaimed while typing into her laptop from her ergonomic setup)! Sorry, I just had to vent about that for a minute.


Anyway, I now have a glorious three-day weekend ahead of me. Friday night I'm going out to Treasure Island (which is in the middle of the Bay Bridge between SF and Oakland, for those non-locals) for a party at Justin's house. Justin is one of my sister's copious ex-boyfriends from years back, with the advantage of being one that I not only remember well but genuinely liked (we seldom approve of the men each other dates; Mom is following in our footsteps on this one, making it a true family trait to have higher standards for our loved ones than ourselves or something like that). Anyway, Justin moved out here 3 months ago, and when he called home for Holly, she gave him my number. We haven't met up out here yet, and this party will be the first time I've seen him in 5+ years. The last time I saw him, he was a BroadRipple punk/goth with a melancholy tendancy to pierce his cheek with a safety pin for fun (ok, so that only happened once, but it's such a great visual). Holly says he can morph into different people easily, and she called him currently a "computer geek", which would seem to jive with my somewhat awkward conversations with him on the phone. But when I asked him what kind of party it was going to be, (that is, what should I wear?) he told me that anything from the Raver Kid scene would work.

See, computer geeks out here are not generally fat, anti-social men with pocket-protectors - usually they belong to some sub-genre of the Bay Area that has it's own brand of coolness. The ones I can think of off the top of my head are:

  • Punk rockers
  • Ravers
  • Extreme sports fanatics (mountain bikers, hang gliders, ski/snowboarders, surfers etc)
  • World travellers (though they usually fit in another group as well)
  • Renaissance Faire/SCA types
  • and so on
Anyway, I'm beside myself wondering what to wear to this party. I'm trying to get up the guts to call Todd and ask for Ellen's phone number so I can embarrass myself by asking her for some wardrobe tips. I used to be much more versatile in my wardrobe, and I still have a variety of things, but lately I can never pick the right outfit for the occasion, especially these private parties. You know what I need? A pair of nice black leather pants and some ankle boots. Leather pants are universal. And they make you seem like you have a great attitude.

Of course, I don't really want to invest in leather pants until I hit my goal of being totally buff, but I have until age 30 (2 more years) to reach that goal. Can I wait so long?

Anyway, I think I've rambled on here long enough. Hopefully the party will be fun and I will tell you all about it this weekend. Have a good weekend yourselves!

Exercise log:

Lifted weights tonight: back and biceps. Did my 150 situps and 25 minutes on a brand-new precor machine and hardly broke a sweat. Felt very tight and shaky while stretching; obviously the days when simply walking 40 minutes a day counted as exercise are long over for me; my body demands an increasingly harder workout and won't stand for long lulls. Great.


Writing log:

Have been thinking much about my new story; decided I hate it but there might be salvagable bits (such as the characters); I need to get in a writing class so I won't have the luxury of chucking things before I finish them.


I'm currently reading:

Reading now:

The Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch by Phillip K. Dick

Buffy the Vampire Slayer: The Watcher's Guide by Christopher Golden and Nancy Holder

The Writer - Janurary 2001 (magazine)

Still reading, off and on:

Woman: An Intimate Geography by Natalie Angier

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