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Sunday, June 13th, 1999 - Dinner poetry blooms for new friends and kids!

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Hmmmm. It's such a beautiful day today - sunny and actually very warm. I'm in a deliciously good mood. La vie, est belle.
Let's play catch up:
Thursday: David came over after dinner and made a salad (with lettuce, basil, oregano and snowpeas he'd just picked out of the garden, with store-bought red bells and carrots) while I made a new pasta dish for dinner. I hardly ever cook, but when I do, it always turns out fine. This dish had green beans and snowpeas (again, from the garden) along with carrots in a ricotta sauce. We added some purple basil, which gave it a zing. I think I actually like cooking *with* someone else - and David's good at modifying recipes like that, which makes it more interesting than blindly following a recipe. Anyhow, it was a very good and filling meal.

Then David went home and I went to an open mic poetry night in Berkeley, where I met my friend Byron. Byron convinced me to read, so I read Country Schoolyard, which is about the sweetest, nothing-at-all-sexual-in-it poem I have. I've always been rather fond of this poem, but for some reason shied from reading it - not "mouthy" enough for a slam, you know. But it turned out to be such a little gem! I was nervous at first, stumbling over words, taking deep breaths and trying to calm down. By mid-way through, I was into it, and by the time I got to sing, "Mamma had a baby and it's head popped off!" I was enjoying full audience response - laughter, sighs, ohs. I love it when the audience listens like that. Of course, they were a good audience, and everyone got such courtesy, but they seemed to really like my poem. That last line was really fun to deliver, my "every silver lining has a cloud" sort of trademark.

It was good to talk to Byron afterwards. He and I shared some of our fears about our writing lives, and I ended up feeling not so alone. He's a good friend.

Hung out with David both Friday night and Saturday day. We did our usual garden maintenance. David is very impressed with my blue and white columbine which has started to bloom among the red-velvet snapdragons. It is a very impressive, dainty flower's flower, if you know what I mean. I love the little tasseled bonnets they seem to wear. The snapdragons are doing well, too. They were running along the ground, but now new stems have started from these, and the garden is becoming lush. Ah. I also transplanted my flower seedlings into the raised bed, spacing them out and adding other, bigger, stronger cosmos and four o'clocks to fill it out. David made a border from cement "rocks", so it's looking nice. The tomatoes are starting to get waist-level, and the Early Girl has one, tiny green fruit started on it. Yippee! We're still eating snowpeas (obviously) and David complimented me on selecting that crop. The basil's so big we're making pesto this week, and the lettuce keeps getting bushier everytime we pick it back.

The peppers, I decided, needed special care. They're heat lovers, you know. I bought floating row covers - thin white cheescloth-like fabric you drape over your veggies to keep them warm (while they still get light and water). David fashioned hoops out of coathangers, and we staked it down over that. Our peppers look like they're camping out in the garden. I don't care what secrets they plot out down there, as long as they come out big and healthy. Kids - they need their privacy too.

Saturday Night: I went out to dinner with Rebecca and Cornman (her David, but for clarification we'll go with his nickname). It was cool, I was craving Ethiopian, and they suggested it before I could! I love being on the same wavelength as my friends. I ended up hanging out and talking to them into the wee hours of the night. I had a great time, and we seem to have a lot in common, which would explain why we made such fast friends. I'm sure you'll be hearing more about them.
Today, I'm getting up late. I'm writing a journal entry. I'm going to go hang out with Lydia and her girls with David. Hopefully, Kaylie and I will dance. I love kids. I miss Lothlorien because Holly and I used to get to hang out and play with the children. It's so nice to have kids to hang out with again.
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