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Wednesday October 11th - What's Joy?
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I don't remember ever being so consistently unhappy as I have been recently. I don't remember the last time I had actual fun, or experienced joy. Natalie Angier, in Woman: An Intimate Geography cautions in the chapter on muscles that getting fit will not make you happy after the initial pride in doing something virtuous for your health. But that wears off, fast. And I try to dwell on my new muscles, my new strength, my emerging svelte, but it doesn't do much to put off unhappiness. I'm still bored with my life, too often actively unhappy, and not having fun.

No, I don't even think Burning Man was "fun". I am capable of having a good time, don't get me wrong, but pure joy seems beyond my reach.

There was something coming up that might have been fun, but now it's just stressful. That's really disheartening.

Well, it's never fun to wake up furious. I can't say I'm surprised at my mood today. I'll leave you alone now; sorry for bothering you.


Lunchtime update: I went to a couple of vintage clothing stores and then Good Vibrations during my lunch in an attempt to cheer up. Good Vibes usually does the trick, and I do feel better. I couldn't resist buying myself two new toys, which I just showed to Krista at the lunch table. Michelle shrieked when she saw one of them, which I suspect I bought for the funny way it looks as much as the technical aspects of the toy. Thank goodness for Good Vibes. I mean, I'm still a little angry, but it feels almost bearable, I think.

Exercise log:

Yoga class. We did the straddle stretch - where you put your legs in a wide V and stretch your body on the floor in between them - which I'm pretty good at. Then he had us bring our feet in so they were only a couple of feet apart, put our hands behind our backs, and press up, balancing on our heels and hands in a tripod shape. I've tried this before, but with little success - it takes a lot of shoulder/arm strength that I never used to have. Last night, I did it and felt as if I could hang out there for hours. Ok, minutes. I felt strong. That was a really good feeling.


Writing log:

Whipped out the laptop while waiting for takeout and started writing, only to be thwarted by my battery running completely out. I really think the fates are fucking with me.


I'm currently reading:

Woman: An Intimate Geography by Natalie Angier

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